WHY BUILT AN AWESOME PROFESSIONAL NETWORK IS IMPORTANT ?

When you are in a business or professional world, people more focus on being likable, power oriented and trust. You have the power to increase the company’s image into a certain level, it all depends on your hard work, punctuality and smartness, now a days it does not matter how much work you do but it matters how smartly you can do the work. Your professional network is always an open door for you ,it depends on how you can built a network and how far it can go, for better or for worse, it’s not just what you know or are capable of doing, it’s who you know, that’s important for career advancement and business development. From our childhood days we learnt “slow and steady wins the race but as per time race now that rule don’t matter , now how fast and how smartly you can run so that you can win the race , but in case of networking the only thing that matters most is HOW SMARTLY YOU CONNECT THE PEOPLE” . Don’t set the boundaries to connect the people, set yourself free and see the result, one day you’ll find everyone useful in certain period of your life.

How to Build Your Professional Network

Now social media becomes an easiest platform to connect with many even in professional world. I realize the importance of professional networking when I was in engineering and I had a B-PLAN to work out even I was busy in social work through that I connect with many but for professional network I connect with people through social media , websites , personal life connections and events.

I found difficulties to maintain professional relationship as it is quite difficult than general communication, I tried to research on it, how to build a successful professional relationship. I began asking everyone I know who has had a successful career, built a successful business, or career advisers on how to build a professional network. After compiling the best advice I received, researching I could find, experimenting, and practicing, I learned a lot about how to effectively make new contacts and build relationships.

I am poor in communication skill, but I always try to practicing and testing new techniques and strategies, making a lot of avoidable mistakes, and meeting and building relationships with lots awesome people to overcome my weakness and turn it into my strength. 

How to grow your professional network

1. Be Helpful to everyone you meet

James Mattes quotes:

“In this age, I don’t care how tactically or operationally brilliant you are, if you cannot create harmony — even vicious harmony — on the battlefield based on trust across service lines, across coalition and national lines, and across civilian/military lines, you need to go home, because your leadership is obsolete. We have got to have officers who can create harmony across all those lines.”

“Be polite, be professional, and have a plan to kill everyone you meet.” This is most often cited by those who work in combat arms profession. It goes a long way in the real world. The more you sweat in training, the less you’ll bleed in combat. This applies to concealed carry situations as well as it applies to the combat mind-set. Work your brain. Maintain your professionalism and decorum, but evaluate everyone you meet. So it’s important how to help someone without doubting on them or their doubt on you as there relation in business world and real world is quite different.

When people in your network get stronger, you get stronger. Share your expertise and ideas, Share information. It’s a two way communication , here you are helping yourself by sharing knowledge and building god relationship and another person who is getting help from you .If you can connect two people you know who would benefit from knowing each other, you can help two people as well as improve the strength of your network.

2. Build a Reputation

Be careful in this filed , your one bad image can ruin your entire life hard work , that’s the main reason I really scared of rumors and bad image , as it has a great power to ruin my 23 years of hard labor building my own image and personality , in professional world it matters a lot especially when you are in a social work and some prestigious sector , people always take you as a ideology but if your image is ruined then it’s very difficult to build the same image again as image and reputation are like glass , once it break it’s very difficult to join it and create a looks like before that’s the main reason I care even I SUFFER a lot for this too . It's no difficult to maintain ,still if one want then he/she can do it also, it’s not a rocket science but for this you need hard labor and super consciousness so that you can control your mind .  In a professional setting, people prefer to build business relationships with people they see as being valuable. By building a reputation as someone who is talented, helpful, and valuable, people will be more motivated to meet you and stay in touch with you. Let people know what you’re accomplishing and learning through blogging, emails, and conversations. I also love to connect with people who loves me and help me to rise , when it comes to professional world it always symbiotic relationship but without harming my image as I am dreaming about to become a BUSINESS AS WELL AS SOCIAL WORKER .

3. Be Visible

If no one knows what you’re doing, it’s like it never happened. That’s the reason people now a days do something different to get attention, simple it is called as attention seeker, but this is really good when it comes to marketing and branding your product. Maintain regular and consistent with people you want to stay in touch with.

4. Meet Lots of People!

Don’t create any boundary , make it free with no bias , try to connect people as much as you can so that you can be always profitable as you don’t know who will act as your luck in your future .The best way to make lucky things happen, is to make a lot of things happen. Go outside. Ways to meet new people include conferences, events, meetup.com, asking people you know for introductions, reaching out to people directly, personal interest groups, classes and workshops, parties, happy hours, alumni associations, Twitter, and LinkedIn groups.

5. Think Long-Term

Connections open doors, but relationships close deals. Networking is not just about exchanging business cards and connecting on LinkedIn. Networking is most valuable when long-lasting, mutually beneficial relationships are formed. Relationships take time to build. Be patient. Stay in touch with people you like.

6. Get Rejected!

“If you aren’t getting rejected on a daily basis, your goals aren’t ambitious enough” – Chris Dixon

In networking, you will face a lot of rejection. People may ignore your calls and email, they may decline meeting invites, and requests for introductions or can laugh at you and criticize you. Trying and failing is much better than not trying at all. At least when you try you have a chance to succeed. Learn from your rejections and grow stronger for when it happens again.

7. 3 simple rules (Listen, ask and follow)

Listening is one of the most valuable, yet commonly overlooked and most important skill to have in networking and in business. People love to talk about themselves and appreciate themselves, Listening will help you to get to learn about peoples’ challenges and get to know them better, which can ultimately lead to more productive professional relationships.

Ask open-ended questions, be genuinely interested, and express interest and curiosity. You never know until you ask, and more often than you think, you will get the answer you want. 3 simple ask rules – “Ask for introductions, Ask people you want to meet to meet with you, Ask for advice.”

Follow up with on people who promised to do something for you. Follow up on on emails you send that get ignored. Do what you promised to do for others.

The purpose of professional networking is to gain information, increase your visibility in your field, and establish personal connections that will help you advance in your career. 

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ENTREPRENEUR’S EVOLUTION – LATEST INFOGRAPHIC

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15 Inspiring & Instructive Business Infographics

There are thousands of amazing stories about the biggest companies and the best entrepreneurs. One website - Funders and Founders Notes found a great way to show us all these amazing stories. They are creating infographics explaining entrepreneurship, startups, business models and productivity tips through infographics.

Today I'm sharing 15 inspiring and instructive business infographics which will tell some cool stories about business and also will share some quick, but great tips on how to become a better entrepreneur.

Published: By: diaryofmywholelife.blogspot.com - 22:22

WHAT KIND OF ENTREPRENEUR SKILLS YOU HAVE

Are you a world-changer?

An innovator?

An opportunist or a jack-of-all-trades?

Maybe you’re a serial entrepreneur — or are you actually a ‘wantrepreneur?’

As an entrepreneurs, each of us is different and unique. The one common element we all share is the desire to create freedom in our “work” and life through entrepreneurship.

Still, there are some entrepreneurs reading this that are stuck in their business and their life. You know who you are. You can’t figure out why you’re not making progress or what to do next in your business. 

So Successful entrepreneurs have different (often multiple) personality profiles, each with its own strengths and weaknesses. So find out here , which kind of personality you are ?

1. World Changer 

These kind of people are always concern about Earth, environment and Social . You are keenly aware of your environment, both on a local and global scale. Maybe you were an activist or environmentalist in a past career, and it is very likely you have green leanings when doing business. You likely created your company in order to make a positive impact in the world, believe that success is measured by impact and when it comes to social media you almost certainly have a Twitter account. You know the world is changed one person and one company at a time, and you are committed to living by Gandhi’s words.

2. Innovator 

You are all about creating a product or service. As an idea-man (or woman), innovation is more important to you than actually owning a company, and that is OK. You have a knack for coming up with new ideas or making old ones better. However, that also means you may need to excel at delegating, and hire a CEO to take care of the tasks you don’t enjoy. While you trust your instincts, you also do a lot of research. It’s likely you have a goal of creating an empire, and a tool like Evernote is your biggest crutch.

3. Opportunist

You have a “gift” of intuitive timing and are able to choose the right locations. Some people may call you impulsive, but that’s just another way of saying opportunist, especially when so many of your right-time/right-place moves have paid off. Like the innovator, you also trust your gut while conducting solid research. However, you could be a little better at planning ahead if you want to build an empire.

4. Jack of All Trades

Diversification is your middle name. You aren’t afraid to explore trends or to step in when needed. This makes you think risk can be scary and exciting, all at the same time — you truly believe there are no great rewards without great risk. However, you’re also a bit of a follower, which means you need to find the right investors, stakeholders and partners to be successful. You likely became an entrepreneur to take advantage of the self-starter lifestyle or simply because you didn’t want to work for anyone else.

5. Serial Entrepreneur

You’re flexible and always looking to the future for the next big thing. The ‘Thomas Edison’ of entrepreneurs, you can take a lot of stress and brush off past negative experiences with ease. A total leader, you might struggle with actually learning from your past failures (it’s not automatic). You measure success in being better than the competition and in how much money you make. You might jot down your ideas on Twitter — or even on a napkin.

6. The skeptical entrepreneur

This entrepreneur sees the success of others and immediately starts to question it. They examine that person's business and looks for the “lucky” breaks, or inheritance they think that successful entrepreneur received.

Maybe it’s the news, or previous life experiences, but they are skeptical of success and don’t believe it’s possible without all the stars falling into place.

When you can’t see or believe success is possible, you’ll never get to a place in your mind that allows you to take action. You will stay stuck; you’ll make every excuse and believe it because of your skeptical mindset. This is the scariest type of entrepreneur.

7. The copycat entrepreneur

This entrepreneur sees the success of others and tries to copy them exactly. Their website is the same, their business cards are the same, and the way they present themself is the carbon copy of a leader in their industry. Take Pat Flynn of the popular blog Smart Passive Income. Since Pat became popular, there has been a whole wave of people that copy him line-for-line.

There is nothing wrong with modeling success—it’s actually very smart. There is a fine line, however, between modeling and copying. Modeling success means you see what works and figure out how to make it relevant to your business, and who you are as a person. If you have been copying, get honest and switch from copying to modeling.

8. The research entrepreneur

This entrepreneur loves to learn. They research every possible scenario and outcome for strategies to start or grow a business. There is nothing wrong with learning, but when that’s all you do, it becomes a problem. The research ends up becoming an excuse for not taking action.

While you should always strive to learn what works, and what could help your business, you have to implement. Most entrepreneurs know more than they think; too many entrepreneurs fall victim to information overload. The key to success is learning and then implementing. The implementing has to happen.

9. The determined entrepreneur

This entrepreneur hasn’t “made it” but they will, no matter what. They see the value in entrepreneurship, they see that success is possible without copying, and they do everything they can to start or grow their business.

Starting and growing a business is hard, and it takes time, but there is proof that it’s possible to thrive. To get there, you need change your mindset from focusing on what too many people consider “reality” to what you know your reality can be. Successful entrepreneurs have determination as their backstory.

5. The accomplished entrepreneur

This entrepreneur has gone through all the stages of entrepreneurship and building a business, and has reached success. They are now focused on scaling their business and leaving a legacy that extends beyond their lifetime.

The accomplished entrepreneur has figured out the things that will help you reach success. They have figured out how to connect with their customer and how to solve their biggest struggles. They will never “make it” but they are experiencing true freedom. They understand their time is their most valuable resource so they use it wisely.

What type of entrepreneur are you? Face the truth and make a change if it needs to be made. Success will be different for each of us, but if you’re stuck, it could be because you’re not the type of entrepreneur you should and want to be.

Success takes time. Growing a business could take a lot of your life, but the freedom entrepreneurship provides is worth the wait. It all starts with deciding what your goals are. Decide what you want from your business and how that fits into your life. 

Check your Entrepreneur personality traits as per your skills –

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By Havard Business Review

https://hbr.org/2015/07/assessment-identify-your-entrepreneurial-personality-type

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POWER OF THOUGHT BEING A FEMALE ENTREPRENEUR

Entrepreneurship is more than just a career choice , The other sense it’s called as “BE YOUR OWN BOSS”. There was a time when people run after Engineering or Medical or Some Government jobs (IAS,IPS) as these are comes under Prestigious job with handsome money and our mentality was those who don’t get job or uneducated they all run business , actually this was happened in past era means nearly 20-30 years before as in that time getting job was not a difficult task as competitions were less but all couldn’t get the right information or actual scope just because of lack of availability of information like in present world , now we can get a clear picture of different career prospective of different background , so now you can’t criticize an Arts students or love a science student as per their career background as in present world both treated equally as per their vast better career prospective both can excel in their own filed and can make their own unique name in the world (Actually I didn’t born 30 years before as now I am going to 24 means 23+ but what I heard from people even from my papa too , that’s why he chose Government job in RAILWAY as Central government provide better job security and good payment with facilities , You can switch your job position as per your interest , like this many more policies are there) It’s a way of life in past era but now Being an entrepreneur is called as “SEXY” or “MODERN FASHION” , now most of the people wants to start their own business , no matter whether you passed from IIT or IIM or Foreign Institute or just Metric pass , even it doesn’t matter you are belongs to poor or rich background or male or female as now people are very conscious about making their own name in society , as most of the people wants to self independent from financial site , no doubt money is a issue but it’s not come under big issue which actually motivates a person to become an entrepreneur , there are lots of factors which influence a person to become a entrepreneur , for me I am saying it’s kind of “SOCIAL ENTREPRENEUR” , I want to contribute something to society as well as I want to contribute myself to my world through my business .

Entrepreneur’s professional life

People want to become entrepreneur as it’s kind of life changing for them, which change their personal life as well as their professional one, it typically changes their whole life style.

An entrepreneur is a problem solver, your approach to problem solving will change, you’ll learn new skills and become more familiar with new industries and markets. You’ll undergo a personality change -- for better or for worse. But perhaps most importantly, during your course as an entrepreneur, your perspective on life will undergo a dramatic shift.

I am talking about my life ,In early stage of my life- first I run after medical as I want to contribute myself for society by giving free medical facilities to poor people but when I didn’t get medical I felt like my dream became like dream then I entered into engineering and I felt like my all dreams are burst like water bubble that’s why in my 3^rd semester time I think about drop out and join in sociology but when I realized I already spoiled my life for running after medical I didn’t dare to do the same mistake again so finally I decided to complete my engineering but after engineering I didn’t have interest in join in Job so I go for M-TECH , even planned to do Law along with M-TECH but when I didn’t get M-TECH , May for God’s Grace - I entered into MBA , I never think about enter into MBA no doubt I have interest in Business but my first priority was Research then MBA still I am very happy with my choice but sometimes, there was a fear comes in my mind with heart , again if I fail to implement my B-PLAN in real world like Medical to make my dream into reality then ? Then again second thought comes in my mind , everything happens for a good reason may be God want I should chose this career because he knows me better than I know myself , he knows which will be best option for me and my future and how I can reach at my Goal ?

Now I don’t think anything about my future or past , I just want to live in present moment , That’s why I want to involve myself all sorts of work which can take me towards my destiny. I try to connect all the people whose mentality match with me .

No doubt I attend many entrepreneurship programs but recently I attend two within 1 month (January) One in Mayfair and another this 5 Days EDP "28 JAN - 1 FEB" (Rajib Gandhi - Entrepreneurship Development Program) , this is an awesome workshop , 4^th day already complete but great learning especially for Budding Entrepreneurs.

Some many innovative ideas u can get if u analyze each and everyone in your surroundings , each and every situations. I learnt a lot and experienced a lot no doubt I am under general MBA category but always wanna be a entrepreneur , Let my dream burn inside me so that that  fire never let me sleep peacefully and always encourage me to work more and more towards my goal and especially these kind of workshops helps you a lot , which motivates you more to work towards your goal and give you clear cut idea how to implement your idea in real world ,now I can think which path I followed now why I didn’t follow the same path 4 years before means during my engineering time , no doubt I tried but my way of achieving goal was completely different or can say it was not that much structured or goal oriented , how I am now . Now I have clear cut idea and planning but it need wing to fly.

Sustainable business depends on 4 important factors – Problem , Idea , People , Decision .

1. Decisions seem less consequential.

Everyone makes dozens of decisions each day, ranging from what dress to wear to whether or not to go to a different place. As an entrepreneur, you’ll be making even more decisions, and most of them will seem more significant than “ordinary” decisions, yet you’ll come to realize that bed decisions can sometimes yield decent results and good decisions don’t guarantee victory.

After several months of helming your business, you’ll see decisions as essential, but less consequential. You’ll no longer be intimidated by the potential fallout of a bad decision; instead, you’ll make the best decision you can as quickly as you can, and you’ll move on.

2. Problems are less intimidating.

Every day, there’s at least one new fire that needs put out and at least one major change you never saw coming. Throughout your stay as an entrepreneur, you’ll become better at handling these problems as they come up, and all the other problems in your life will become less intimidating, too. Rather than seeing them as show-stoppers, you’ll see them as simple puzzles that are unavoidable and demand to be solved.

 

3. People become more important.

Entrepreneurship helps you see the importance of other people in your life. Your family and friends will be there to support you during your most stressful times. Your investors and mentors will help guide you to making the right decisions. Your partners and teammates will help you see your vision through to success. Your clients will make or break your business. Human relationships will dictate your success, and as such, you’ll learn to value them more.

 

4. Ideas are no longer fleeting.

During the course of day, I’d wager the majority of ordinary people come up with at least a half dozen ideas. Those ideas may be large, like an idea for a new business, or small, like an idea for a new dinner dish. They may be good or they may be bad. Regardless of the quality or scope of these ideas, the majority of them are released, never to be thought of again.

As an entrepreneur, you see firsthand the value of an idea. Even bad ideas, if worked on, can become good ideas, and even ideas that never manifest in reality can be learned from if they are properly explored. After your course as an entrepreneur, you’ll never let another of your ideas go immediately. You’ll hold onto each one, explore it and consider it for application. Similarly, you’ll be more willing to hear and explore the ideas of others. You never know when or how your next great venture will begin.

Don’t let these perspective changes intimidate you. It’s true that entrepreneurship changes you, but in most ways, it changes you for the better. Besides, if you aren’t prepared to take a risk for a potentially monumental gain, you might not be cut out to be an entrepreneur in the first place. Your time as a business owner will be a challenging, rewarding and exciting journey. Whether you fail hard or become a massive success, you’ll be grateful you took it.

Entrepreneur’s Personal life

For an entrepreneur it’s very important to maintain Personal and professional life stable , I never dream about a better life as I am a girl with a high dream so I can think about how my life is going to end , it may be very poor or great . I have decided to do something mean I’ll do that by hook or by crook , I never dream about a better life as after leaving my home , I already see the world in better view and my life is very struggling so I am mentally prepare for that. But how my personal life is going to be I don’t know only God knows. By the way today i gotta know about a different site called "FLOH" , which can help many single working or dreamer women to get a perfect partner. Meet single professional for mingle .Online to Offline , so creative ! Right , this is called as real business , see the problem then find out the best solution.

In this world no one wants to live alone throughout their life , specially for a woman . I think! Women should not need men for their success but Yes! We need like minded people who'll support our work especially when we are dreaming for "BUSINESS AS WELL AS SOCIAL WORK" You need a person whose mentality match with you so that WIN - WIN situation will arise but it's not mandatory that every professional or dreamer or entrepreneur woman always run after a successful man, she need a man who has a capability to make him successful but never forget her importance in his life or can say who become successful being together even now the world is so competitive you have to update yourself and make yourself that much capable so that you’ll not miss out in life race or can say as per the world's requirement.
U can b CEO/CFO/COO of any company by your own talent but When u dream to build your own empire pr company, you have to be careful enough , whom you chose as your life partner and professional partner as both has equal importance in your life when you are a female entrepreneur . 

You don't need too much money to start your business - U need "GOOD IDEA + PERSONALITY + AUTHENTIC + FAMILY SUPPORT" a man can easily get these as the earth or society itself male friendly than female no doubt government has many policies right now still but when you are a woman entrepreneur you need to be more mentally strong as chances of getting help is less so in this situation a woman need a man so that both can work together for One Goal for that u need LIKE MINDED PEOPLE , then only it’ll become more easy . If you just go through all female entrepreneurs autobiography you’ll got to know either they are Highly educated or Rich family background or having Supportive family or didn’t Marry at all , NONE OF THEM LIFE IS EASY , UNTIL UNLESS THEY ARE RICH so it’s not a easy task to become a female entrepreneur Until unless you have any of these .

Now I am in MBA , now I just want to fully concentrate on my study and B-plan within these 2 years of MBA time then job experience for at least 1-2 year after that i'll think about Mingle Job as I have seen most of the successful entrepreneurs have work experience and money also a big issue . So study the work environment first then go for your Business but start your small business with partnership when you are in college so that after 1-2 year when it'll start profit you'll have both idea and experience too , "This is My view or plan you can say for my future , I don't know How u people take it"☺☺☺

Published: By: diaryofmywholelife.blogspot.com - 11:14

DON’T FEAR TO WALK ALONE – SAY “ONE WOMAN ARMY”

“The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.” ~ Albert Einstein

This is one of my very favorite quotes.

Often we all fall into the assumptions life should be lived according to what our religions, traditions or learned moral values teach us but problem is if we follow the crowd and everything what make our life comfortable then one day we’ll end up with losing self , The comfort of knowing what is expected drives most to live a predictable life. We all fit with a routine life what everyone followor you can say , what we learnt from childhood days, but when we become old and gray, regretting all the things we did not do. Many of us day dream about things we are only brave enough to do in our imagination and when it comes to taking that first step to putting that dream to work, we doubt ourselves.

We doubt on our own strength because we allow fear to question our commitment to the crowd; we allow fear to convince us we will be scolded and shunned for taking that first step to walk alone; we assume traditions and moral values are beliefs which cannot be bent or edited to become our own version.

When you are struggling with taking that first step to walk alone, ask yourself if that step is done for LOVE. LOVE for yourself and LOVE for LIFE. Often times we allow ourselves to stay stuck in a bad, miserable or unhealthy situation because we are afraid of losing something which we may get from the crowd like support and love. If you live your LIVE with LOVE as your main driver, you will only reciprocate that energy and more will come right back to you.

“There are old heads in the world who cannot help me by their example or advice to live worthily and satisfactorily to myself; but I believe that it is in my power to elevate myself this very hour above the common level of my life.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

In a crowd, people are like each other and strive to be so. Walking alone, your example is yourself is quit difficult as very few people accept you as you are. You learn to be better than you were yesterday and realize dictating your own life is more beneficial than using someone else as your example to be like. Many influential people in the world walked alone, they realized their potential was only limited when they compared themselves to someone else.

“It’s not what you are that holds you back, It’s what you think you’re not.” ~ Denis Waitley

It is a very well-known fact that if anyone wants to do succeed in life by his/her own effort then they must believe in themselves. We have to believe in ourselves and in our abilities because our inner faith will create our external results. People easily lose faith in themselves when encountering setbacks, failure and fear. When you lack confidence in yourself, others will pick up on that and won’t take you seriously. Not many people live the life that they have always wished to live; they give up on their life goals as soon as they encounter the first setback. One of the main causes for this is that they do not believe in themselves.

“Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.” – Brad Henry

The world that we are living in is extremely competitive and challenging, and people start to doubt themselves and their abilities when they meet with failure and negative people. But a few failures are not the end. You must get back up again.

1. Accept Your Current Situation

The first thing you need to do is start believing in yourself again is to accept your current life situation. You have to make peace with how your life looks at the moment and what led to this situation that you are in. Fighting with your situation won’t do you any good. Being resistant is pointless, so we must accept first. Only then will we have enough energy to change our life.

“First, accept sadness. Realize that without losing, winning isn’t so great.” – Alyssa Milano.

2. Think About Your Past Success

If you are feeling down and out, use your past to get motivated again. Remember the time when you used to just kick butt. When you were awesome and you used to rock it! Put yourself in that past and think about the awesome things that you used to do. Now remember that you can do it again. It is easy to think about the times when you got hurt, but it is just as easy to think about those times when you were successful as well. Use your past to your advantage.

“Every day is a new opportunity. You can build on yesterday’s success or put its failure behind and start over again. That’s the way life is, with a new game every day.”– Bob Feller.

3. Trust Yourself

This is one of the most important things that can help you get that belief and confidence back. All the energy, power, courage, strength and confidence is within you. Spend time with yourself to access it, whether it be through meditation, journalling, or activities that make you trust in yourself again.

“Everything in the universe is within you. Ask all from yourself.” – Rumi

4. Talk with Yourself

We are the ones who create who we will become. We do that every day by our daily beliefs and self-talk. It’s really important that we talk to ourselves and motivate ourselves. We don’t ultimately need others’ approval.  You deserve your own self-approval and supportive self-talk.

“The brain simply believes what you tell it most. And what you tell it about you, it will create. It has no choice.”
“If you tell yourself that you cannot, what can the only outcome be?” – Shad Helmstetter.

5. Don’t Let Fear Stop You

Fear stands for False Evidence that Appears Real.  It is the main thing that holds you back from believing in yourself again more than anything else. Face your fears and don’t let them stop you from achieving your goals.

“Always do what you are afraid to do.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

6. Let Yourself Off the Hook

You have to forgive yourself for any failures or mistakes that you have committed in the past and move on. You have to look at the future and stop living in the past.  Be compassionate towards yourself.

7. Go With A Positive Attitude

Having a positive attitude towards everything is the quickest way in achieving that belief and confidence in yourself. Be thankful for whatever you are and whatever you have. Always have a positive approach and see the good in the world.

8. Let a Life Coach Help You

A life coach is a professional that helps, supports, and guides you. A life coach can help you recognize your abilities and skills. They can help you refocus on your goals and remember your past successes.  When you’re full of doubt, your life coach will believe in you and help you to believe in yourself again.

9. Keep Moving Forward And Never Look Back

“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

There are going to be countless times in your life when you will feel down and you will feel like giving up. The voice in your head will tell you to stop and you will start to doubt yourself, but never listen to that voice. Be strong and keep moving on. Never give up on yourself. You have to keep on going and eventually you will reach your destination.  And when you do, you will realize how much more powerful you have become.

10. Let Life Move You

Let your life follow its own natural flow.  When you learn to follow your life’s flow, you’ll realize that life is marvellous and precious.  If you let your life guide you, it will shower you with its gifts and riches. You have to accept the life you are given and you have to learn to relax. Allow it to let you move in the direction you are meant to go, and you will find success.

“We all have different things that we go through in our everyday life, and it’s really important to know just at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what you face, you know that you’re going to win at the end of the day. You got to believe in yourself. You got to believe in God, know that He’s going to get you through it.” – Kelly Rowland.

Personal Life-

Till now what I got that’s because of my own strength and own effort , even I have seen people don’t make friendship with me just because fear if I’ll get success due to them , some also leave me in my worst period . still I never bow my head before failure. people call me egoistic , of course I am , because I learnt HOW TO WALK ALONE IN MY LIFE . I love to be myself . 

Read my whole Biography  , This is not only post , read my whole blog posts , you can get know more about me -http://poemstoryshayari.blogspot.in/2013/06/my-hostel-life-from-12th-class-to-whole_4604.html

Now I am 23+ years old and pursing MBA and a long road wait for me to get success in my future life . I have faith on myself I can win in my life race , God is with me J

I always take myself as "ONE WOMAN ARMY"

The following passage, The Way of Walking Alone, was written a week before Musashi died in 1645. This personal manifesto expresses a stringent, honest, and ascetic view of life in 21 powerful principles.

1.  Accept everything just the way it is.

2.  Do not seek pleasure for its own sake.

3.  Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling.

4.  Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world.

5.  Be detached from desire your whole life.

6.  Do not regret what you have done.

7.  Never be jealous.

8.  Never let yourself be saddened by a separation.

9.  Resentment and complaint are appropriate neither for oneself nor others.

10.      Do not let yourself be guided by the feeling of lust or love.

11.      In all things, have no preferences.

12.      Be indifferent to where you live.

13.      Do not pursue the taste of good food. [Do not overindulge.]

14.      Do not hold on to possessions you no longer need.

15.      Do not act following customary beliefs.

16.      Do not collect weapons or practice with weapons beyond what is useful.

17.      Do not fear death.

18.      Do not seek to possess either goods or fiefs for your old age.

19.      Respect Buddha and the gods without counting on their help.[Respect the belief systems of others.]

20.      You may abandon your own body but you must preserve your honor.

21.      Never stray from the way.

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