Attitude is a little thing
that makes a big difference.
Sometimes changing your circumstances isn’t possible – or simply
not possible soon enough. You can’t make someone else change against his
or her will. And you certainly can’t erase the past. So what
options do you have left?
Change your perception, belief or opinion about your
circumstances. Doing so will help you change your attitude and ultimately
allow you to grow beyond the struggles you can’t control.
The
Greek philosopher Epictetus said it perfectly more than 2,000 years ago: “People are disturbed, not by things (that happen to
them), but by the principles and opinions which they form concerning (those)
things. When we are hindered, or disturbed, or grieved, let us never
attribute it to others, but to ourselves; that is, to our own principles and
opinions.”
So
your attitude like Confidence can being miracle in your life, you will be
looser if you can’t boost confidence in your skills and abilities in the
workplace. Confident people tend to work more happily than those people who
have less confident , low confidence means low self esteem and are unafraid to
go for promotion or take on new challenges.
Tips how you can boost
confidence in yourself -
No negative self-talk
You
are the boss in your life , so how can you allow others to rule over you. No-one
ever got better at anything by beating themselves up. Talk to yourself and make
yourself better and better every day, and encourage yourself rather than
ragging on yourself for making mistakes. A positive mindset will help you learn
more easily, which will boost confidence.
Build on your strengths
Studies
have shown that a good way to boost confidence is to focus on your strengths
rather than your weaknesses. Accept what you already do well, and make an
effort to refine your better qualities. It’s a great confidence boost to do
something excellently rather than adequately.
Pick up new skills
Flexible
people are the always winner ,those who knows how to walk with the present
world they only can survive. there is always room for improvement, and learning
new skills will not only enhance proficiency at your job, but will also boost
confidence. Watch what other people do successfully, and don’t copy , do how
you can do the same thing in better way. Attend seminars designed to help to
built your inner skills and become a better worker. Pick useful skills such as
time management, and productivity, or learn something new that will help
specifically with your job.
Eliminate negative language
Word
kills many people than wine. Sometimes the very language we use limits us. If
you’re walking around all day saying “I can’t…” you’ll find that you are
closing your mind to solutions that you can’t and you will end up with doing
nothing. Instead of asking to yourself “I can’t” say to yourself “How could
I…?” Finding effective solutions will boost confidence greatly. Many people
place unnecessary limitations on themselves at work, by using the word “but” in
their communication. Stop saying “but” for a while and notice how you can get
more done if you make an effort, rather than making excuses.
Focus on your successes
If
you always run after others dream instead of focusing on your own then you can’t
end up with success . It’s difficult to boost confidence if you’re bemoaning
what you don’t do well. Remind yourself of all the successful work you’ve done
to boost confidence in your abilities at work. Recalling successful times at
work is a better way to boost confidence instead of constantly focusing on the
negatives.
Stop constantly comparing
yourself to others
“Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a
better job of being you than you.” ~Unknown
We
compare ourselves to others and gauge where we are based on what we observe
them to be doing.If this was simply an observation, that would be one thing.
But in comparing ourselves to others, we often end up judging ourselves.
There’s no one worse to judge!
So,
instead of training it to stop comparing altogether, why not simply redirect
the comparison to a past and a present self and keep the comparison within?
It doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing
with their block of stone. The statue that they are liberating is one
of their own intentions. But how well we are doing with our own block of stone
is our business And we must tend to it with honor, care, compassion, and praise.
Because when we have allowed for more expression this year than we have in the
last, and more importantly we recognize it, then we can stand taller as a
result of the comparison instead of diminished by it.
Find a solid support group
When focusing on confidence-building
it’s important to have a group of friends, romantic partners and family that
are 100 percent behind your goals. If you have anyone who is toxic to your
self-improvement and will not support you, then it is important to talk with
them about this. Sit down with them face to face and explain how you feel or
write them a heartfelt email. If they are still not supportive, than maybe it’s
in your best interest to discontinue the relationship.
Truthfully, there is so much about
your fate that you can’t control, it makes no sense to neglect all the things
you CAN control. You can decide how you spend your time, whom you
socialize with, whom you share your life, money and energy with. You can
pick your words and the tone of voice in which you speak to others. You
can select what you will eat, read and study every day. You can choose
how you’re going to respond to unfortunate situations when they arise, and
whether you will see them as curses or opportunities for growth…
And
most importantly, you can choose your attitude, which dictates pretty much
everything else.
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